How to Get a Man to Obey

By JosieKnows

Step 1: THE RIGHT MAN

Unfortunately, there are some men who will never walk the line. Many women confuse this with some 
romantic image of masculinity. WRONG. If he won't alter his behavior for anyone, you will never get 
the man to obey. He's simply incapable of appreciating a good situation. 
 
To get a man to obey, you must start with the right man. If your man has the following qualities, he's an 
excellent candidate for training. If not, you should probably look for a man with the following: 
 
1. Intelligent enough to know a good situation. Too many men have been poisoned by the media's 
constant feed of half naked teenagers and porn stars. This non-stop diet of fantasy has warped their 
expectations of reality. Make sure the man you're working with is smart enough to realize he isn't a rock 
star (unless he is) and that he shouldn't expect you to be perfect either. 
 
2. Work ethic. If a man has no work ethic, even if he appreciates you, he'll struggle to follow through on 
promises and obligations. If you want a man to obey, make sure he is capable of following through with 
commitments and that he works hard to achieve goals. 
 
3. Settle. If you want a man to obey, really commit himself to your needs and desires, make sure you 
choose one who sees you as 'out of his league'. If a man thinks he's dating a woman beneath him, he 
won't try hard to keep her. If he thinks you're the best thing that ever happened to him, he'll do whatever 
it takes to keep you.

Step 2: WHAT DO YOU WANT?

Just as all men are not suited for obedience training, not all suitable candidates possess the talents you 
desire. Figure out what you want from a man and look for one with the skill or talent to give it to you.

Step 3: WHAT WILL YOU DO FOR HIM?

His needs are also a part of the equation. In order to keep him interested in making you happy, you must 
be able to fulfill one of his biggest needs. Sex? Money? Emotional? Status? What does the man need? If 
you can give it to him like no other, it's a perfect match.

Step 4: FILL THE NEED

Before you teach a man to obey you, you must convince him that you have the power to fill his needs. 

Show him that you are the lovely trophy woman he needs to impress his friends. Show him you're the 
domestic type who will keep his house in order, if that's what he needs most. Be his therapist if what he 
needs is guidance. If he needs his mommy, you can be that too. 
 
Put all your efforts into filling that need like no one else ever has.

Step 5: DEMAND OBEDIENCE

With a wet appetite, men are often much easier to handle. Once you have him convinced that you, and 
only you, are capable of handling that burning desire within him, be prepared to stop. The moment he 
steps out of line, acts like a jerk, or acts like your needs don't really matter, give him a taste of his own 
medicine. If he won't fill your needs, you won't fill his.

Step 6: LET HIM KNOW IT'S A DEAL

When conflicts occur, as they likely will in the beginning, simply remind him that you have a deal. You 
don't have to say it directly, but make sure he knows that if your needs aren't met, you won't be meeting 
his either. To get a man to obey, you must be willing to cut him off and stick with it. He must be 
convinced of the consequences of his disobedience.