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The 13 Sneakiest Tricks,

Tests and Mind Games

of Women--That Men

Keep Falling For

It’s been said that:

“A true genius is a person who has talent

and still does their homework.”

In football,

it’s been said that the offense sells tickets and gets the

glory, but the defense wins championships. And because “the offense”

gets the glory, many of my competitors programs mainly focus on the

“attack” or what to do “on offense” when they are selling tickets to

their “success with women” seminars or home study courses.

In other words, they teach you how to increase your confidence

enough to go out and talk to women and maybe even talk your way

into getting their email or phone number. I say, who cares if you have

maxed out the memory with women’s numbers on your cell phone; or

have so many emails in your laptop’s address book you forgot who’s

who? Why don’t you just walk around with the entire White Pages

Phone book under your arm so you don’t miss anybody on the list?! It

means nothing if you can get (or already have) hundreds of

women’s phone numbers and e-mails if you do not know the

mind set of attracting them and keeping them around longer

than a one time date. Some guys think that their mind set with

women is a bunch of fluff. It might be a small part but, it’s a critical

part as well. Remember that commercial that was showing you a

small piece of plastic in a car mechanic’s hands. The narrator said

something like: “This is a 38 cent piece of plastic, but a $38,000 car

won’t start with out it.” The right mindset is just like the 38 cent piece

of plastic—you’re success with women won’t start with out it either.

Some women only want a guy with money; some women only

want a guy with muscles and good looks. But ALL women want a

guy who knows how to create feelings of attraction within her.

This is how guys who are limited in their looks and finances are still

able to have beautiful women pursue them!

I hear from some of my competitor’s customers and they tell me

that they can successfully approach a woman and even have great

odds in their favor of getting a first date. The problem is that they

can’t seem to get that 2

or 3

date without hearing the “F” word—

“Friends”, as in: “Let’s just be friends.”

This why one of my next programs is going to be:

“2 Date Minimum”

How to Get Past That 2

or 3

Date Barrier

Once I have it together, be sure to find out more at:

www.2DateMinimum.com

This is comparable to when I was working in a stock brokerage

firm in the mid to late 80’s. Some stock brokers were good at cold

calling, but they just didn’t follow up with the prospects. Some were

good at getting the prospect to agree with them on the potential of the

stock, but couldn’t close them and open the account. And worst of all

were the brokers who could close anyone, anywhere; however, they

never got a 2

order out of the customer. Dating is the same way.

There are guys who are burning through their rolodex of phone

numbers and e-mails and never getting past the 1

, 2

or 3

date.

The guys that have the most success are the ones who are

better at disqualifying the “bad prospects” as quickly as

possible and as a result the remaining relationships last much

longer.

Just before I was about to graduate college, I passed my Series

7 (Registered Representative License to sell stocks, bonds and mutual

funds) and used to qualify prospects (instead of just cold call) for two

very different stock brokers. To keep it fair, I would hand out the

leads generated by going back and forth between them one at a time.

This kept it as random as possible and I wouldn’t be accused of

favoring one broker over the other. Broker #1 had trouble converting

any of my leads to sales. He even started complaining that I didn’t

know how to qualify these leads before I handed them over to him.

He would say all the wrong things to the prospective leads and wonder

why nobody was buying any stock from him. I tried to coach him on

what to say, but he really didn’t want to listen to a “wet-behind-the-

ears” broker trainee, even though he knew I was right. Broker #1 was

such a bad salesman that he went through over 30 of my qualified

leads and didn’t close any of them. As he was on his way to the sales

manager’s office to complain about my efforts (so he wouldn’t look

bad), he was surprised to find Broker #2 already in the sales

manager’s office singing my praises. It seems Broker #2 just closed 4

out of the last 7 leads I gave him for over $100,000 is sales. If you

know anything about sales, you know that we were lucky to get 1 out

of 10 qualified prospects to convert into a customer. With 4 out of 7,

Broker #2 was closing over 57% of my leads where any broker would

have been happy with 10%.

We were calling on Presidents and Vice Presidents of companies

that had been in business for at least 3 years and had at least $3

million in annual sales. Unfortunately, that was not enough

qualification to get a good quality lead and eventually a sale. The

secret to my success was to disqualify the prospective investors so I

had a much higher quality lead when I got off the phone. I would ask

more questions and as a result, let the person on the other end of the

phone talk their way into or out of our services based on their

answers. I wanted to see if they qualified to hear from us again,

instead of them granting approval to see if we were qualified

enough to call them again. Other trainees would just get the free

information packet out to almost anyone that they could get on the

phone. They might have had more leads, but mine were the most

qualified leads at the brokerage firm. When it came time for the

brokers to call the leads back, my leads had a higher close ratio than

any other trainee. The prospects turned into new accounts quickly,

which saved the brokers time and made more money over the long

run. Before long, the brokers were not just paying me by the hour,

they were paying me bonuses per lead and per new account that they

opened because they knew my leads converted to not just customers

but repeat customers for years to come. It turned into a bidding

situation from all the brokers. They bought me breakfast, lunch and

dinner. They offered to by my time earlier in the day, later in the day

or on the weekend. I wound up making two to three times more

money than the other trainees only because I took the time to get a

better quality lead by disqualifying them upfront.

After a few more leads and some coaching from the sales

manager (and myself), Broker #1 finally opened up an account off of

one of my leads which put him at a pitiful 2% closing. He was burning

through too many good leads and costing the company money instead

of making the company money. He was eventually offered another

position within the company. Thanks to the infinite wisdom of

corporate America, he was put in a place where he could do less

harm—management! He was asked to give up his “stock broker”

status and told he could have a “sales manager” position for a branch

office in another state. I guess people really are promoted to their

level of incompetence after all.

With this type of corporate B.S. going on in the company, they

still wondered why I called in sick one day in the fall of 1993 and flew

to New York to do the Montel Williams Show when the opportunity

presented itself. I had done some radio interviews and one other talk

show, but nothing this big. Instead of being in the typical authors spot

(last), I was on first and took on 100 spell bound women in the studio

audience and over 3 million viewers at home. From that moment, I

knew people from all over the world believed in my ideas and were

motivated to find out more. They ran into bookstores and demanded

the book and producers of talk shows from around the world kept

calling my house at any hour of the day. My grandma became my

“volunteer” personal assistant and screened the calls and helped me

send out press packets. She was already heavily involved in the

creation of the book and found herself proofing it with me over and

over, night after night. I knew she was just amazed at all of the

interesting people who were calling to find out more about the ideas in

the book that were mere pieces of paper laying on the our kitchen

table months before. Unfortunately, she’s not here anymore to help

me proof this 2

edition, but I know she’s watching down over me in

heaven still encouraging me to go on and amazed at how this

information comes through me and gets the reaction it does when I

help change people’s lives with it. So in honor of my grandmother,

let’s push the envelope and let me ask you:

What do you do when the women start “testing” you by playing

social tricks, traps and mind games on you? It might be the first date,

(it might be the last!), all I know is that guys that are married over 50

years still get “tested” by their wives—so this stuff doesn’t go away.

You need to have a good social defense against this in order to win or

at least reduce the damage. It’s like you’re being a future Hall of

Fame defensive line backer from a Super Bowl Championship team,

(let’s just say: The 1985 Chicago Bears). This is the mind set you need

in order to be able to “read the plays” on the field so you can respond

with strength and confidence, not just react and wonder how they got

past you and eventually got the best of you because you weren’t

prepared.

Women are going to keep running plays to try and keep you off

balance. They are going to claim that they are “so mysterious”

by mixing up the plays, hoping you don’t see or figure out a

pattern. They are going to try and make you vulnerable and question

yourself just to see if you really believe in your own confidence. They

are going to try and make you have “turnovers” so they can be on

offense more and more so they can “call the plays” and make you

hastily react to them. It’s a slippery slope from there, because if

you’re not careful, you will fall into the: “Yes, dear” category and keep

agreeing with anything she says just so she won’t complain about you,

bitch at you or fight with you. Women will keep causing turnovers (as

long as you let them) by making you fumble your balls. (Pun

intended) By fumbling, you are handing the ball(s) over to her. Good

luck scoring now!

Once they have the ball (or in this case: “have you by the

balls”), they will remind you of the “good old days” when she was so

attracted to you because you seemed to be a powerful and confident

“train” heading for an unquestioned destination and nothing was going

to stop you from your dreams. With you being a deflated,

miniature version of what you used to be, she will lose more

and more respect for you because you can’t have respect for a

team that you can walk all over and easily beat. The teams and

players that you respect are the ones you can’t beat or at least they

make it a tough challenge to do so.

Most women are going to try and wear you down with enough

bitching and nagging in order to “renegotiate” the terms of the

relationship. They might increase or decrease the amount of sex just

so you start “seeing things her way”. Women know and fully

understand that sex is the currency of any relationship

between them and any guy. Sex is to the relationship as money is

to a job. The more there is and the better it is, the more you will be

willing to do and the more crap you will be willing to put up with in

order to get more of it.

The problem is that most guys think with the wrong part of their

body. As a result they scan the single clubs for women based on

beauty the same way they skim the “help wanted ads” just based on

the salary of the job. Any woman that doesn’t meet the minimum

beauty requirement is glanced over and forgotten about the same way

a job that doesn’t meet the minimum salary requirements.

The smart job seeker and business opportunity seeker

aren’t just interested in how much money they are going to

make, but rather (and more importantly), what will they have

to do (and give up in their life) in order to make the money.

You can make a $100,000 at a sales job, but you have to travel 3

weeks a month out of the country. You can have a million dollar

convenience store business if you don’t mind working 18 hour days

365 days a year and taking a 2 day vacation once every 5 years.

Unfortunately, most guys only look at the money from the business

opportunities and only look at the physical beauty from the women.

Who cares how much of a hot body she has if she never lets you near

it? That’s like owning a Lamborghini and never being able to drive it.

Why bother paying the inflated premium price for insurance,

maintenance and storage if you never get to use it?

If you’re looking for more than just casual sex, I would be asking

myself things like: “Is she high maintenance?”; “Is she an emotional

train wreck waiting to happen?”; “Does she have a lot of emotional

baggage or just a ‘carry on’ bag?”; Is she a team player?’; “Does she

let me do all the work while she has all the fun or does she want to

have fun with me in the picture?”; “Does she make me jump through a

bunch of hoops in order to win her affection?”; “Does she make it easy

for me to be myself around her?”; “Can I please her easily?”; “Does

she appreciate me?”; etc. If you want to have a higher success

percentage with women, you have to honestly answer these “red flag”

questions for yourself.

By the way, when the woman keeps “raising the quota”, this

usually results in the guy slowly and steadily doing more for the

relationship as she does less and less. Pretty soon she doesn’t

have to do anything accept find another guy who still has his

balls and won’t kiss her ass so much.

Years ago, one of Vince Lombardi’s players on the Green Bay

Packers was asked why they won so many games. The player said

that coach Vince Lombardi’s preparedness is why they won. The

player summed it up in 2 main reasons of why Vince Lombardi won so

many games: 1) He told you what the other team was going to do and

2) He told you what you needed to do in order to beat them. You can’t

get any clearer than that. I want the information and strategies I talk

about to come across just that way. I want to tell you what the

other team (women or true Jerks) are going to do and what

you need to do in order to win. I’ve come up with some “plays”

that a woman might run against you (when they are on offense) and I

want you to be prepared on defense. These are all true to life because

I went through them personally with different women. I’ve learned

from them and I want you to do the same so you don’t have to go

through the pain yourself. Because remember the old phrase: “Fool

me once, shame on you, but fool me twice, shame on me!” So here

they are. I call them the:

“The 13 Sneakiest Tricks, Tests and Mind Games of

Women—That Men Keep Falling For!”

1. Pay Dues and No Membership: Women know that Nice-guys

stay alert to help any woman in need. Nice-guys are delusional

if they think that by helping any woman with what ever she

needs that she will see him as “good boyfriend material”. This

extends all the way from letting her pull into traffic in front of

you (when she’s a stranger) to helping her move to a different

apartment (when you’re her best friend). When in reality, all

she really sees you as is a “tool” that any one can just use

because they have little respect for you--so why should she be

any different. You will “be there for her” like a best friend

and that’s the way she will treat you. She might even say:

“You’re such a doll for doing this for me.” Which translates to:

“you are a like a stuffed animal toy that she hugs when she feels

lonely or needs to cry”. When something more interesting or

exciting comes around (like a Jerk), she quickly loses interest

and puts you back on the shelf until next time she needs you.

You will keep paying the emotional, physical, and mental

“dues”, and receive no boyfriend membership and

benefits for your efforts. The next time a girl calls and asks

for a favor, ask yourself: W.W.J.D.: “What would a Jerk do?” No

not to be confused with the W.W.J.D.: “What would Jesus do?”

Remember, Jesus was the ultimate Nice-guy and the people

nailed him to a cross. -Ouch! This proves that even 2,000 years

ago it was painful to be a Nice-guy. I think it’s less painful to be

a Jerk!

2. Play 20 Questions: This is a classical first date test. You think

everything is going great on the date because the conversation

keeps going. The only reason the conversation keeps going is

because she is playing “20 questions” with you. She is asking

you everything from your favorite color to your mother’s maiden

name. You willingly tell her EVERYTHING and think: “Wow, I’ve

got such a great rapport with this woman; she’s really interested

in me because she keeps asking me questions”. The problem is

that she needs “mystery” in the relationship. If you tell her

everything about yourself on the 1

date, don’t wonder why

you’re not getting a 2

one. Whether she is asking these

questions because she is testing you to see how much you will

reveal about yourself (or genuinely interested in asking), you

need to give short answers and get out of this mode as quickly

as possible in order to save yourself and the potential future

dates. The more you are on “Play” (re-playing your old “fun”

memories for her and making your conversation sound like a

documentary about yourself) instead of “Record” (recording the

fun intensity of the moment you are in now by doing

spontaneous and adventurous things) the faster the relationship

will crash and burn before it even gets off the ground. Nice-guys

think if they tell her about all the fun they had in the past, he

will appear to be a “good prospect” of fun in the future. Do you

think she wants to come over o the 1

or 2

date and watch

home movies of you and all your fun in the past? Or do you

think she wants you to create some fun memories with her so

you both can play them in your minds for years to come? I’m

here to tell you that women think just like the warning found on

a mutual fund ad: “Past performance is no guarantee of future

performance.” She knows the only way she will be

attracted to you as a fun, spontaneous, unpredictable,

adventurous guy is to see if you act that way around her

now, not just in your past around other people. (Also see

Chapter 18 - “Filling Holes” in How to be the Jerk Women Love

Edition available at:

www.WomenFiguredOut.com

)

3. The Acid Test Question – this one is so important and

relationship changing that it had to have its own number:

When all is going right in a relationship and you’re wondering if

the woman is going to have sex with you—beware! She might

try and throw a monkey wrench in the works by asking you one

tiny little relationship altering, destiny changing question. She

will say something along the lines of: “Have you ever fantasized

about us together?”; “Do you think you’d ever ‘do it’ with me?”;

“Did you ever think about having sex with me?” or “Have you

ever thought about us making love?” Most guys think this is an

easy question which will take them one step closer to having sex

with her. They quickly answer with a confident “yes” and think

that this all too easy. The problem is that when she knows

that she “can have you”, before she “has had you”, the

chances of you having sex with her went from 90% down

to 10% in a heartbeat. So therefore, realize that you will be

giving yourself such an incredible and instant, social setback that

you should answer ANYTHING but “yes”! By the way, don’t

answer “no” either. If you do, she will think that you are lying or

that you are gay (or both). –The 10% chance (you had by

answering “yes”) looks really good now! She knows that if you

are giving her any amount of attention (like going on a date)

that you are sexually interested in her. If you weren’t sexually

interested in her you would have skimmed right past her like

that minimum wage job in the help wanted section. With that in

mind, the next time you’re asked if you thought about the two of

you having sex before it actually happens, try answering with

something smart ass and cocky like: “Well that’s for me to know

and you to find out.”; “Who every said you could afford me?”;

“Well, you’ve got good potential, but you might have to do a

better job on selling me on it.”; or “Yeah, I dreamed about it

and in the dream you couldn’t keep up, so you better do

something to increase your endurance before we even try to

have sex. Maybe take a few aerobic classes or something.”

What you are letting her know is that you are “not hungry”. You

are also communicating to her that she can’t afford you and

you’ve had better than her. You’re presenting yourself as being

expensive and it’s going to take more on her part if she wants

your attention. You’re showing her that you are not an easy sell

or an easy kill. You’re demonstrating to her that you’re

comfortable enough, confident enough and experienced enough

around women to be playful in a fun teasing way. This teasing

is what makes the sexual intensity skyrocket because you

are holding her back from getting the “instant

gratification” she so desperately craves. Make sure she

gets her “instant gratification” from shopping and Nice-guys, not

from you.

4. Reverse Passion Play: This is where the woman tries to tell

you how busy she is with her life. She has her career, possibly

graduate school with homework, her friends, her family, her cats

and on and on. She takes what I said about: “Making yourself a

Challenge” and uses it against you. She tries to sell you on the

idea that her life is so busy with her passions, hobbies, interests

and commitments that the only chance you have of being around

her is to just get in line behind EVERYTHING else. If you find a

woman who does this or at least presents herself this way, it is

either a social smoke screen to see if you are intimidated by her

strong feminine life or bunch of crap and lies (or both). If the

right guy came around and created feelings of attraction in her,

she would leave all of the passions, hobbies, interests and

commitments in order to try to be first in your line rather than

warning you that you have to be in the back of the line in her

life. This is where the Jerk can get almost any woman to miss

meetings at work, cancel out on her friends and lie to her family

in order to get another taste of what she knows she can’t have

(him) and satisfy her uncontrollable, unstoppable, biological urge

and addiction to be with him.

5. Sorry, Members Only: I’ve come to the conclusion that your

sex life with any woman is indirectly proportional to the

relationship she has with her parents. In other words, the

better the relationship she has with her parents, the worse the

quality and quantity of your sex life is going to be. This will put

you into the “sex 2-3 times a month or 2-3 times a year”

category. On the other hand, if she comes from a broken home,

her father left when she was young, or her mother disowned her

years ago, get prepared for the best sex of your life. She will

have such an un-quenching sexual appetite that she will wear

you out. This will result in you being in the “sex 2-3 times a

week or 2-3 times a day” category. Maybe she has sex as a way

to make up for the physical love, emotional support and

acceptance she didn’t get from her parents. –Yeah, like you’re

really going t care about the reasons! There’s at least one of

these girls in every circle of friends. The guy she is going out

with doesn’t deserve half the sex he’s getting. He thinks he’s a

stud, when in reality he doesn’t understand that he has nothing

to do with his girlfriend getting hot and horny. He’s just

happens to be the closest warm body to put out her “fire in the

hole”. This guy is in for a big let down when he moves on to the

next girl who isn’t so naturally horny. As a result, the sex will be

given out with an eye dropper because he doesn’t know how to

create the feelings of attraction in her.

6. You’re Just The Stunt Double: This one is 3 dimensional.

Don’t just think because a woman has a great time with you and

really seems interested that you should be heading for the

jewelry store for an engagement ring. A) She might be on the

rebound from a relationship and her friends told her to “dance

with a stranger” in order to help forget about her heartache.

B) Even worse, she might not be officially broken up with her

boyfriend yet and just be looking for revenge for the evening. It

could be dirty dancing, kissing or a one night stand with you, but

by the next day she has changed back into a pumpkin and won’t

even remember your name. C) And worst of all, she keeps you

around for a while for a short term relationship and gets your

hopes up. You later find out that the entire relationship was a

façade and you might as well been in a Hollywood movie. You’re

just a stunt double that she bounced up and down on for a while

until the real “leading man” came back into her life.

7. Out of the Blue Booty Call: This is a 2-parter. If some

woman that you’ve dated before or just happen to know

suddenly calls you out of the blue for a late night booty call. Be

careful that she isn’t just horny and lonely. Don’t look at this as:

“Well I knew she would come to her senses!” Rather she could

be in trouble. A) She might already be looking for protection

from something she did that day or week. Now she needs you

to step up and defend her and get her out of trouble especially if

she needs you to leave right away and come get her. B) She

could also be pregnant and need you to have sex with her as

quickly as possible. You think it’s great and you use 3 kinds of

protection. However, within the next few days, she informs you

that the baby must be yours from the night of passion you both

shared. See you on the talk show circuit with your D.N.A.

samples!

8. Fair Weather Girlfriend: This is the classic case of the girl in

high school that goes out with the football player during fall

football season; the wrestler and basketball player during the

winter season; the baseball player during the spring season and

the life guard on summer vacation. Beware of this one because

she has a greater interest in the letterman’s jacket than the in

the letterman himself. When she gets older she will sell her

affection to the highest bidder. She will leave a trail of

everything from jackets to jewelry as she “traded up” the social

ladder. At best, you will be just one of the little people she

stepped on to get to where she needed to go. I say save your

money or at least get a receipt. This way you can ask for a

refund back at the store for your gifts. She is certain to discard

them just as sure as the next season changes.

9. Whole lot a jerking going on: If someone gives you a jerk in

a certain direction it shifts your body and mind to focus on what

just happened. I say that a Jerk in the Social Marketplace is

someone that comes in to a woman’s life and shakes up the

complacency. He gets her to focus on what he wants to do by

“jerking her around”. He alters her destiny “by jerking her

around”. He gets on her mind by giving a jerk (or a twist) to her

reality. Most people (especially women) are bored and waiting

for something to jolt them. Women want to be anything but

bored. This is why soap operas and romance novels hold a

woman’s attention so well. There is so much “jerking” going on

and the women love it. The characters get “jerked” in one

direction and as soon as they get too comfortable, they

get “jerked” in another direction with a whole new batch

of excitement and problems. If you see that your woman is

more interested in her romance novels and soap operas, you

know that she is secretly crying out to live the drama instead of

just reading about it ad watching it on TiVo. Jerks “jerk” people

from one extreme to the other and have the relationship

bouncing up and down like an E.K.G. Nice-guys stay in a

straight line—a flat line! And that is whey their relationships

with women “flat line” and die.

10. Double

Agent: You’ve heard phrase: “It’s the quite ones

you gotta watch.” This is so true with women because it is so

easy for them to give you the false impression of themselves.

Women have so many moods, personalities and emotions that

you need a scorecard like this special report to keep up. What if

I told you that the quite reserved woman at work was yelling

and screaming her head off last night at a rock and roll concert?

--Only to be followed by a night of yelling and screaming her

head off during sweaty, passionate sex. Most women live out

their alter egos and share them only with their closest

friends and lovers. They will give you the false impression

that they look like and act like the quiet librarian who would

rather stay in and read her novels, but most of these women

have enough built up sexual energy to light up a city. She just

never found the right outlet for it. Don’t accept the quiet

reserved personality you see at face value because she might act

like completely different behind closed doors in private.

11.

Marking the Territory: This one is 4 dimensional. A)

Sometimes when a woman doesn’t know if you are playing the

field or dating her exclusively she will “mark the territory”. She

will do this by purposely dropping something under the car seat

or couch to see if any other girls have left anything behind (from

earrings to a bra). If she finds something, she will question it

and you better hope that you have a roommate to blame it on or

your sister crashed at your place last night. B) She will be the

one leaving something behind for another woman to find hoping

you will get caught in her trap. C) She will leave something

behind like an extra earring (that se wasn’t wearing that day)

under the car seat and then on the next date pretend to find it

and ask you whose it is. She just wants to see if you are going

to cough up any names of other girlfriends that you might have

had in your car in between the dates with her. I remember I

learned this one by finding the earring that my date left behind

when I cleaned my car. On the next date, it was hilarious to see

her looking for it under the seat as she couldn’t wait to question

me about it. The only problem with her plan was that the

earring was already moved by me. I said: “If you’re looking for

the earring you left behind, it’s in the glove compartment.” She

was speechless. D) When you get to the point in the

relationship where you move in together or get married, a

woman will usually want to start by leaving some of her personal

items at your place to mark the territory. It will start off with

her leaving anything behind from an extra hair brush or tooth

brush and then it will escalate to cosmetics and tampons. Before

you know it she is slowly redecorating by changing your drapes

and buying you some hand towels for the bathroom. You

respond with: “I’m a guy, what do I need a hand towel for?”

Then you really know you’re in trouble when she buys a

bed set with a flower pattern on it. Of course, you don’t

notice the flowery bed spread for a while because she met you at

the door wearing nothing but lingerie or just one of your white

dress shirts. She has the best sex of your life with you in every

room except the bedroom. The next day when you finally find

the bedspread, she meets you there and decides to give you a

repeat performance of the night before. And once again you

seem to forget abut the flowers that you are laying on! Until one

day you just wake up and ask her: “Honey, when did we get a

bed spread with flowers on it?”

12. Lover’s

Spat: Beware of the woman that just starts

arguments even when things are going great. She needs to see

a “show of strength” from her man to fight back. This will give

her a feeling of security. Just like saying: “I love you”, some

women need this reinforcement once a day, once a week, once a

month or maybe just once a year. Be aware of how often she

needs this reinforcement and decide if it’s a level you can

accept and live with. She might even be getting into

arguments for no other reason except to have the “make-up

sex”. Well, every once in a while there’s some benefits to this

craziness.

13.

Two Tickets to Paradise: By the way, neither one of

these tickets has your name on it, but you’re supposed wish

your woman a good time as she and at least one friend are

headed to a vacation destination without you. These girlfriend

vacations are worse than a “girl’s night out” and a bachelorette

party combined because it involves multiple nights and a greater

distance away from home. In other words, what’s going to

happen on vacation is going to stay on vacation. You are

supposed to be the drug she is addicted to, not the

everyday seriousness that needs a break from. She needs

to have her friends, but in my book, vacation time is couple

time. You’ll never find out the truth (nor do you really want to

know the truth) about what went on during her vacation. It’s

best that you either go with her on vacation; get everyone to go

as couples or just talk her out of going all together. If all else

fails, be sure to call up your buddies and schedule a trip of your

own. Then decide if you really want to be with a woman who is

going to spend thousands of dollars just to get away from you

and create fun memories when you are hundreds or thousands

of miles away.

SPECIAL BONUS

14.

Daddy’s Little Devil: You should watch the way a

woman treats and interacts wit her dad or father figure in her

life. Take a lesson from her because she has been watching like

a hawk in the way that you treat your mom or mother figure in

you life. Most women believe that they will eventually be

treated the same way you treat your mother. The downside is if

you are too close to you mother you are going to be known as a

“Mama’s boy”. On the other hand, if you haven’t talked to your

mother in years (by choice) or it takes such a great effort to just

call her on Mother’s Day, her birthday and Christmas, then this

might raise a red flag to a woman as well. For this very reason,

some say that over time, you will be getting the same

level of respect that she has for her father. If she has him

wrapped around her finger, chances are over time, she will have

you wrapped around her finger as well. If she has her dad

fooled by lying to him on a consistent basis and he is clueless to

how she really is outside the house, chances are you will be in a

similar denial about her someday as well. Even if she is 50+

years old, she might be “Daddy’s Little Girl” at home, but outside

she is “Daddy’s Little Devil”. These are the types of women

who are jumping around on stage winning amateur wet T-

shirt contest at the bar on Saturday night and singing in

the church choir Sunday morning. Be the one who she is

getting into trouble with and not the responsible one who is

bailing her out. Sports figures, especially in professional

basketball keep saying things like: I’m not a role model, just let

me do my job and win games.” With this in mind, I believe you

can’t be the “role-model-father-figure” and “lover” to the same

woman. So pick up what costume you want first and let the

other one sit there. The more you take the role of the

responsible father figure in her life, the more she will rebel

against you as well. Now you’re the enemy instead of her fun

time “partner in crime”.

Women can be the main reason you win the game of life or

get your ass kicked by it. So use your new talent and still do your

homework because I know these defensive strategies will help you win

the big social game. In closing, just remember what I keep telling you

as your “Jerk Coach”:

“You’ll never score as much as you could’ve,

if you keep ‘fumbling the balls’

over to the other team.”

- F.J. Shark

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